A guy who really care of you, will hear everything you said and will make efforts to achieve or prove what you want, what you think, is either right or wrong.
The caring not necessary just related to lovership, can be friendship or waiting-ship.
Everyone does things for purposes. I never deny this.
But at least you can know, he is trying to make some efforts.
My first love, was not easy. He is the first guy I confessed to, and being rejected.
See, pathetically.
But he said, how a guy will "layan" a girl if he did not have feeling on that girl.
That time, I was really thinking that he just treated me as little sister.
This time, I thought another guy who "layan" me, has feeling toward me.
But the truth is, he treated me as little sister.
Like what WC said, relationship has no "past year exercise", do not think that you have experiences, and you actually will still do not know what the guy thinks, cause everyone not the same.
Out of topic already..
Today when I went swim, and my friend accompanied me the whole week, except when he not free or raining, we swam for 5 days, and actually he did not swim much.
What he did the most was, be my coach, life jacket, and safety guard, yea, he is really a responsible and caring guy.
I can tell that he cares of me, no matter with purpose or without.
There are some reasons if someone treats another one good, but did not take extra actions.
Like me, I defined my hometown friend as no-gender-friend.
So, the important thing here is, his actions taught me that, if a guy really cares of you, you will not need to emphasize whatever you want him to know, and he will take notes from the daily conversations, and does some changes.
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